Monthly Archives: September 2005

Sort of like the end of an era

I have treated most of my family members at one time or another.  Most are regular patients – if my family can be classed as regular.  And I have no problem inflicting pain on them if it is needed – as in wisdom teeth extractions, etc.  And I am sure they would do the same for me, if they could think of someway to repay me!

But today I experienced why there is wisdom in the advice not to take on the medical/dental treatment of people who are close.  There are times when it is just too emotionally hard.  It is no problem if the receiving person is in basically good shape and the treatment is simple and routine.  But there are times when it is just not great. 

My dad lost his last two teeth today.  Last week one broke off and so it was inevitable. But today was at least as traumatic to me as it was to him.  Sort of like the end of an era – the last of his teeth.

Maybe it was just the stark reality of his physical condition.  Maybe it was that I am his little girl and for the first time I had to do something to him that he did not want to have done, really.  So I did it.  I soothed his fears as best I could and he still trusted me enough.

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Busy weekend

Yesterday, well I guess the whole weekend, was spent connecting with people and with working on the basement renovations.  It was hard work physically so I was really wiped out from all of the physical work by last night.  And this week promises to have a lot of work to come – cleaning, finishing up on painting and sealing tile, etc.  Then the moving.  Just from the loft to the basement but that means lots of stairs.  It will be good to finish things up, and we have to.  The baby is due in a bit over one month and there is lots to do.  Time always goes faster than we think.

The time spent this weekend connecting with friends was good.  I value this time spent sharing where I am at on my spiritual journey and encouraging others in theirs.  So I guess maybe the hard physical work and the restful spiritual work should have balanced each other off.  Probably means more about my poor physical condition but by last night I was so tired that I think my brain kind of shut down.  I went to bed early and had a much needed sleep.

Yesterday afternoon some of us spent some time praying for a friend who is in the process of chemotherapy.  We prayed for her months ago before she started these treatments.  She is looking so much better both physically and her face reflected the hope and even happiness that she has now.  It was good to pray with her again. 

Praying for healing is a relatively new experience for me.  Up until a few years ago, I think I would simply have prayed something to the effect of “God heal her if this is your will.”  This was different.  I guess I have learned a few things about prayer – things I am glad for.  Yesterday I mostly felt inadequate to know how to pray.  I could imagine where the tumor was, sort of, knowing the anatomy at least well enough to do that.  So that was kind of in my mind as I prayed for her.  And then I could picture her just sort of running up and sitting on God’s lap, being secure in his care.  Afterwards we went for tea.  One of the things that struck me as we talked afterwards was that she said that she felt so relaxed after being prayed for.  There is so much more I need to learn about this kind of prayer.

Then afterwards I went up to the hospital to take impressions for a new baby with a cleft lip and palate.  Such a tiny little thing – a girl – clefts are less common than in boys.  So today that is added to my list of things to do in the evening.  I’ll go up after work and put it in and show the mother how to use it.

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My surprise.

I dutifully stayed away from home most of the day.  Spent the day having coffee talking with a couple friends and doing my grocery shopping.  I was allowed back home at about 4:30.

The kids had been working all day on the bathroom.  And of course it has taken them a  lot longer than planned.  But we are going to have a beautiful bathroom down there.  I hope little sister realizes what a gift she is getting from her big brother and sister-in-law.  What they have done is place slate tile around the tub instead of a plastic tub surround.  A big job but we have had this slate around for about a year thinking that we would use it on the entry way.  So they were able to use something we already had on hand and make a bathroom that is nothing short of elegant. 

I have such handy kids.  They must get it from my side of the family 🙂

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I am not allowed to see…

what is taking shape in our basement bathroom.  So tonight I was painting away in the next room.  I was doing baseboards, shelves and windowsills a new coat of white.  The walls are done!  Blue and green.  Grace thinks the baby will have to be a boy now.  I will not repaint if it is a girl!  If it is a girl, then it will get some pink accessories.  Because I will not paint those walls again – not this year at least.

Any way, while I am in the room painting, Eric and Michelle are doing something in the bathroom.  Doors are closed and there are muffled sounds but nothing distinct enough for me to really know what they are up to.  They did show me a paint chip – kind of a tangerineish sort of orange.  So I assume part of what they are doing is painting that room.  I’m just not sure that painting the room orange warrents a bunch of secrecy.  They asked me if I could make myself scarce tomorrow as it would speed things up for them.  No problem!  I’m getting my hair looked after and then am going for coffee with one friend in the morning and then another in the afternoon.  I was feeling guilty at being away while they are working.  No more guilt!  I will disappear for as long as they like!

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Hiccups

Tonight Grace discovered what interior hiccups feel like.  It isn’t the first time she’s felt them but it is the first time she asked me if I knew what was happening.  We were standing in the kitchen clearing away the supper dishes. 

“Mom,” she said, “What do you suppose is wrong?  Can you feel this?”

There was no doubt on my part.  She was much relieved.  She was a bit scared.  And scared is more of how she is feeling as the time for the birth gets closer.   

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Amazing

It is so exciting to see God working.  It makes worshipping together watching God bring things together an amazing experience.

This morning we heard from three people.  Greg just back from a missions trip to Guatemala – sharing his faith in concrete ways (note the pun – they were building a house).  Logan who got changes to talk about his faith out on the oil rigs.  Johanna who heard God in a different way as he provided enough funds to begin her year at CBC. 

And then we set out into a week of prayer for the hurricane wrecked areas of the US.  It will be interesting to see where God takes us with that.  There will be lots of opportunities to hear God as to how to respond to needs there. 

And for me – a treat.  There was a guy in the back new to our group.  He comes from the Sudan via Winnipeg.  He enrolled four days ago in the Dental Therapy school.  He is there because he listened to God giving him direction for his life.  We’ve had several of these students go through our church – here while they are students, then off to serve God in farther places – Nepal, Northern BC and now who knows where.  For me it is exciting since we have a common love for dentistry and a common sense of God’s calling to do this. 


Now off I go to Saskatoon.  I will see my kids and tonight see some blogging friends at the launch party for Resonate – The Journal.  7:00pm O’Sheas Irish Pub  See you there.

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Photos from Vacation

I spent a lot of time last night posting photos on Flikr.  I wrote an entry to go with them.  Then I did not submit the entry to post.  I guess I was too tired.

Earlier in the day I wrote an entry using Word.  I came home after shopping and Leo told me he thought he had erased my entry.  He had.  I don’t know why I didn’t save it.  I don’t know why he didn’t either.  But there you go.

Trouble is, my mind erases the thoughts just about as permenantly as the computer.  But the pictures are on Flikr!  I will make a set of the vacation ones a bit later today. 

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In Hot Water

Tonight I came home and my first job was to assist with some chemistry homework.  As we looked at why glycine was an amino acid we heard an expletive – loud enough to hear from the basement.  Started with F it did!  Then there was relative silence so, hoping no one was too seriously injured, I went down to check out the progress on the basement bathroom.  Michelle had run headlong into a 2×4.  But the bathroom has come a long way.

The kids left.  They are staying with Michelle’s mom at the farm.  I loaded and turned on the dishwasher.  All was going well till a horrible banging began as if someone was bashing the contents of the dishwasher against the wall.  I opened the door of the dishwasher expecting it to shut itself off.  The water kept running – pouring into the dishwasher.  The banging continued.  So off went the water under the sink.  But I could not find a shut off valve to the dishwasher.  So I ran down and checked where the noise in the floor beneath me was actually coming from.  I ended up shutting off the water to the whole house.  It stopped the noise but from the small copper pipe in the ceiling of the bathroom came a steady but sure stream of water – down into the wall somewhere.  Not good, I said to myself.  The water will just have to stay off till we get a plumber tomorrow.  I do not want a flood in the night.  I cycled the dishwasher till the water drained but I think something may be wrong with the dishwasher and the violent vibrations have loosened a fitting somewhere. 

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Launched

So The Journal has launched.  Check it out.  I have to recommend the article on Liminality of the Eucharist.  I guess it “resonated” with me. 

The celebration of Jesus’ last supper is always a “thin” space for me.  As I celebrate it I remember so many things.  Of course the main reason for remembrance is the sacrificial gift of Christ himself in his death and resurrection.  I also remember times past; times when I have shared in this sacrament with people I loved – love still but am not with physically any more.  Saints who have gone before like my mother, my grandparents, Vanette who chose to spend her last days in the Congo with the people she loved, that whole cloud of witnesses that carried the word along in their own time so that we know it still today.  And there is also a living contingent of saints that are partaking in the same feast at other tables, in other places and times, that are joining together with me in remembering.  It is a very connecting sacrament for me; this huge table of the Father’s where all sorts of children scoot their chairs up close so that they can be in Jesus’ presence, loved intensely by him as individuals yet all together at the feast.

The rest of The Journal is just as good.  The photography by Spencer Burke is  – well look at it yourself – my words can’t describe the little boys eyes in the first photo.

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