Monthly Archives: December 2006

The Nativity Story

Finally I had time to go and see this film.  It pretty much follows the story.  As I commented to my friend that went with me – it is sort of the Readers Digest Condensed Version.  The time lines are condensed to make those Christmas card like scenes with the shepherds there and the wise men there with the light from the star glowing down onto them.  Now this may have been exactly as it was but of course there was no journey into the temple for the presentation and none of those prophecies spoken. 

The one thing I thought was out of place was the music.  I love Christmas carols but I doubt they were playing in the background as Mary gave birth.  A bit more Jewish music would have been appropriate  – just my own taste I suppose. 

I thought that the portrayal of Mary and Joseph was fairly realistically human and I appreciated that.  The angel was maybe not quite as splendid as to cause the shepherds or Mary to actually “fear”.  The chaos and brutality of Herod was there and certainly the injustice of this brutal regime was displayed well.  I doubt that it was any less brutal than what was portrayed.  Makes one a bit more able to portray the culture that Jesus was born into.

All in all not a bad film.  Could probably done just as well as an HBO movie but I’m glad I saw it on a big screen. 

Now to read The Real Mary by Scot McKnight to get a more scholarly picture. 

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Getting Ready

Getting ready for an event as momentous as Christmas takes a lot of effort.  I think it would be nice to go to someone else’s place for a Christmas sometime – less work getting my house ready – but then I would miss having all the kids home.  So, I guess my place is going to be the gathering place for mnay more years to come. 

Today, being the day when I have to get most everything doen, began early.  I got up early and then fell asleep reading.  The second time I woke up I did really have to get going.  Headed out to do the last minuste shopping. 

Did it ever snow during the night!  I parked in Leo’s spot inside the garage and was sure glad.  I did not have to shovel my vehicle out from a snowbank and with the 4 wheel drive was able to back out of the driveway through a couple of snowdrifts.  With the snow and the relatively early hour it was still quiet downtown. 

Most of my day was spent shopping.  But I think I am set – mostly – for gifts. 

The pork was cooking overnight and when I got back from shopping it had cooled – ready to chop up for the tourtiere.  Nine pies ready.  Milk and eggs in the fridge for the rice pudding.  Ham, turkey and even frozen cabbage rolls.  We won’t starve.  Even if we are about 20 around the table.

We even got the tree up.  It isn’t decorated yet but it stands upright in a lot of water.  By tomorrow the branches should be spread out ready to go.  I am hoping the kids will get the urge to put the lights on.

Tomorrow will be another full day with the annual Christms Pizza party at church.  Fun and games for all.

And that about does it for today.

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Routines

Sometimes it seems as if the routines are all that get me throught the day.  I can do them without thinking – much.  So off to work I go.

If I stop and think of all the things I have to do in this next week, my mind goes into overload and it seems as if the world is about to implode.  So I just do and keep doing till as much is done as can be.

This is not how I like to be.  I just have too many things I am committed to doing. 

I guess what gets done will get done and the rest we will live without, whether I like it or not. 

It is easier to go to work than to stay at home and see all the things I can’t do or don’t have time to do right.  Still I don’t like being like this. 

Even my computer seems to be doing crazy things – the time is off by almost half an hour.  Maybe I lost some time somwhere.  It seems like it.

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Today at work

Hodgepodge – that sort of describes my day.  (and I think it is a cool word)

The day started out with a little tiny girl having her first fillings done.  What a trooper.  She was only three.  She wiggled a bit but we managed to send her out with a beautiful pink filling to match her pink pants, t-shirt and shoes.

Then a challenge.  A root had broken for the therapist and in the process there was a little opening into the sinus.  My time in Africa sure pays off.  I learned to deal with such things myself when they happened.  So a flap, some gentle elevation and once the little root tip was out, the area stitched up tight.  He was warned not to sneeze or blow his nose for the next week.  He had one simple little request – please not to prescribe an antibiotic that would interfere with him taking in a little Christmas spirits.  I said Ok as long as he did not fall too deeply under the influence and sneeze. 

Then a difficult and long root canal on a young lady who had the misfortune to have a molar with defective enamel – all brown and soft.  That and the fact that she missed her yearly check-up last year and voila – an abscessed tooth.  Christmas will be more fun without an aching tooth.

And to wind it all up – another little one – just as well  behaved as the first.

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Santa Lucia

Today is Santa Lucia Day in Sweden.  I guess it kicks off the 2 week period before Christmas. 

Today I was able to get up to Birdie’s before work.  Leo and I were the first ones to arrive actually – both of us having to be at work around 7:30.  The Lucia maiden sang to us and we enjoyed some good coffee and buns.

My mother was Swedish so this part of my heritage should be celebrated but it is not something we did when I was growing up.  There were other things my mom did that were very Swedish – Jullotta service early Christmas morning, lutefisk and pickled herring,(not very pleasant IMHO), spritz cookies, potato sausage and spiced beef roll. 

I tend to do the things that are simplest and take the least effort.  I’m afraid that my kids get a bit cheated out of some of the special things I could do.  But I will make the tourtiere from my husbands French Canadian heritage.

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It is beginning

I came home from work today to find a package from Amazon.  Ahhh – an early Christmas present.  My copy of  The Real Mary by Scot McKnight had arrived.  That and then finding a poem on Maggi Dawn’s site has begun to put me in a mood for celebrating this season. 

          mary’s song        by Luci Shaw

Blue homespun and the bend of my breast
keep warm this small hot naked star
fallen to my arms. (Rest …
you who have had so far to come.)
Now nearness satisfies
the body of God sweetly. Quiet he lies
whose vigor hurled a universe. He sleeps
whose eyelids have not closed before.
His breath (so slight it seems
no breath at all) once ruffled the dark deeps
to sprout a world. Charmed by doves’ voices,
the whisper of straw, he dreams,
hearing no music from his other spheres.
Breath, mouth, ears, eyes
he is curtailed who overflowed all skies,
all years. Older than eternity, now he
is new. Now native to earth as I am, nailed
to my poor planet, caught
that I might be free, blind in my womb
to know my darkness ended,
brought to this birth for me to be new-born,
and for him to see me mended
I must see him torn.

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From The Enneagram, A Christian Perspective

From my reading: The Enneagram A Christian Perspective by Richard Rohr and Andreas Ebert, The Crossroad Publishing Company, New York, 2006

 

“So how do we try to hear this Deeper Voice?  When God speaks, it is first of all profoundly consoling and, as a result, demanding!  Anybody who has walked long with God knows this.  There are two utterly different forms of religion:  one believes that God will love me if I change; the other believes that God loves me so that I can change!  The first is the most common; the second follows upon an experience of personal Indwelling and personal love.  Ideas inform us, but love forms us – in an intrinsic and lasting way.  God is always willing to wait for the lasting transformations brought about by love.  God must be very, very patient, surely with history but also with individuals.  Most of us want results that are practical and immediate.”  (p.xxiii)

 

This is just from the preface – it is a book full of insights.  I would not have thought that a study of personalities using this ancient tool would be so helpful to my own spiritual growth.  Someitmes it is scary looking deep into myself.  If I was not sure that God loved that inner me that I sometimes cover up with stuff I think is good on the outside, I don’t know that I would dare look very deep.

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Weekend events

This weekend is busy as it seems most of my time is.  The kids come and go doing their thing.  I catch up on groceries and we do laundry.  Really exciting stuff!

This weekend Patrick was us to help cut up the deer that he and Eric shot a while ago.  I guess the idea is to hang it so it “ripens” or something.  It was pretty frozen with our – 25 degree weather of the past weeks so all available heaters were conscripted to thaw it out.  Yesterday and today were cutting and wrapping days. 

While Patrick was here we got the bad news that Canadian immigration has denied his father a visa to come and visit the boys at Christmas.  Very hard news for Patrick.  He misses his father a lot.  Hopefully Patrick will get Canadian citizenship soon so that he can then travel more easily to visit with his dad when he travels to the states or Europe.  The Canadian immigration decision is just so wrong – so unjust – so biased.  So maddening!  So when I told Patrick the news we were on our way to the bus depot and he decided to stick around for the day.  I’m glad he did ’cause we got to have a good talk before he took the bus back to Saskatoon this evening.

Now the house is quiet.  The other guys are out playing soccer and Sara just left for her game which starts at the ungodly hour of 11 pm.  Hope she gets enough sleep tonight.

 

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"My" car

We seem to be in a perpetual state of car juggling.  That is my car is being shared by too many people that need to go in too many directions at once.  I think it  is Sara that uses it the most.  At least she has the courtesy to drop me off at work and pick me up.  And I get to use it some days and a few evenings – as long as I am home in time so the young lady can get to her soccer games on time. 

Oh well.  At least the car hardly gets time to cool down between uses.  Haven’t plugged it in yet.

We are ridiculously dependant on cars.  I need to get back out walking.  But the cold – and the slipperyness is a huge deterant.  So is my lazyness I guess.

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On Being Stewards of Relationships

Just after finishing my last post, I received the weekly meditation from the Henri Nouwen Society.  It seemed to arrive at an appropriate time as I thought about the importance of valuing the relationships I have with people; hearing complaints but not becoming critical myself.  

 

The author is reflecting on the value of relationships.  She states,” I have come to reverence the preciousness of life. I now see myself as a steward of relationships. A good steward manages and cares for the dearest of relationships with love. A good steward is faithful to the law, the commandment to love, by tending to challenging relationships with mercy and forgiveness.”  

 

She is speaking in the context of being a parent but this applies to all of us and all of our relationships.  

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