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Got the bike out

Went out for my first bike ride in about 6 months.  What a beautiful day.

No mosquitos.  Lots of warm sun.  Just about perfect.

 

I wonder what my legs will say tomorrow.

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Stories

This morning I walked into the operatory to see a patient seated there.  He pointed at one of my family pictures and asked me about the picture of my daughter and her son (which is already a year old so I need a new one).  So I told him who they were, how we had come to adopt Grace into our family and a bit about the Congo. In return he told me a story.
 
There was a time when Nelson Mandela visited Canada. At that time he was welcomed and honoured by three leaders from Canada’s First nations.  My patient had been chosen to represent his people.  The opportunity to meet Mr Mandela had been one of the highlights of his life and a great honour for him.
 
At the time of the visit a traditional sash was presented by this gentleman to Mr. Mandela.  It seems that when a sash is presented on such an occasion, the person it is given to must also be named.  He bestowed on Mr. Mandela the name “Diamond.” 
 
He told Mr Mandela that the name was chosen because his life had shone like a strong light in the world. There is no better stone that reflects the light than a diamond.
 
Meeting people and hearing their stories – one of the perks of my job.  Most of the time they are just simple stories, often stories about fear, sometimes stories of pain, sometimes stories that make me laugh. But this story was one of the really good ones. I was honoured to have him share it with me.

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Hard up for entertainment

This weekend we had a death in the family.  Our washing machine has been in our home for a little over fifteen years.  Used pretty much every day.  It hasn’t broken down much until this last year.

Thursday night it died for good.  I think the motor just wore out.  Bad noises and bad smell – like hot metal or rubber or both.

We decided it was time to replace it.  So we got one of those fancy front loading pairs.  It has more control buttons than the VCR or DVD.  No remote.

This morning Leo informed me that he was going to come home at noon and watch the DVD instruction video that came with it; then put in a load.

I told him we were hard up for entertainment when we had to resort to watching this flick!  He’s pretty excited about his new toys!  🙂

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The goodness of this Easter

It was a good Easter.

That sounds a bit trite I guess, but Easter is good.  It is a celebration and it brings good into the realm of possibility for us.

So today was just good in many little ordinary ways. 

The Sunrise service.  The freezing cold morning – so clear.  Everyone coming in for hot drinks and buns to our home.

The worship service.  It is usually good but having a son there who hasn’t been for a long time drumming with our worship band made it good in more ways than just good music.

And then thirteen or so people for dinner.  Turkey, ham and all the stuff that goes with it.  Good food and good company. 

Celebrations should be like today.

 

And I know I have used good way too many times.  But today was – good.

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Cousins

Today I was a babysitting Grandmother to two young men.  Very young and very special.

We went for a walk down the path by the river, both of them sporting bright yellow rubber boots.  Kieran is an old hand at snow and puddles.  So he climbed up the piles of snow and slid down again.  He splashed vigourously in each puddle we went by.

Zaka is pretty new at this stuff.  The puddle splashing he got real well but that snow – must have been too cold.  Or too slippery.  He avoided even stepping on it.  Since there is still quite a bit of snow that meant I got to carry him.  He has packed a few pounds on – soon he’ll catch up in weight and size to his older cousin.  

 Those two sure kept me busy. 

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Pancakes for cancer

This morning we shut down the office for an hour so we could all attend the Cancer Society’s pancake breakfast fundraiser.  We cashed in our bottles and had more than enough for all of us to go.  We are cheap!  

Good pancakes for a good cause.

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Done

It was a good, if not tedious, afternoon.  I was sorting receipts for my taxes. 

Can’t say as it was enjoyable but it sure does feel good to have that bit of work done.

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One of the things I did today

I had an interesting meet up today with a guy who works with homeless/street people in this city.  He has purchased a building (well almost) and has set up a drop in centre.  I dropped in on the place today and he just happened to be in so I finally got to meet him.  We have talked on the phone but he wasn’t in the last two times I dropped in on him.  I brought in a box of dishes that have been sitting in my basement for just such an occasion.  They needed them and I didn’t. 
 
They offer anyone who drops in coffee and whatever they have on hand.  They have a free shower in the back that people can use and hope to have a washer and dryer soon.  They have a phone people may use to call for whatever reason.
 
And pictures on the wall – all the worst of Christian art – but definitely identifies them as Christ related.
 
They need a few things. Money. They need $3000 by May 1 to finish paying for the building.  That is a big need. They also need some cutlery. I guess the spoons go missing and they are thinking of switching to plastic spoons.  They also need a couple more old couches and chairs. They need more sitting room for those who come to the Bible studies on Sunday nights.
 
A laid back place. The sort of place that a street person would not feel out of place in.
 
While I was there one guy I knew walked in – George.  He was sober. That is good, especially for George.  
 
The other two that came in were pretty high.  Really looped on something. 
 
There is a whole other world out there needing love and needing healing.  Broken.
 
Not every one can do what Ray is trying to do.  God bless him and Hector. But I think there may be ways to help and I am going to try and look for some of the things I can do.

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Things I have not liked doing this week

– Setting a working daughter straight – I was not going to pay for her hair just because she thinks I should.

– letting her grouch about the above and while she did that keeping my mouth shut.  I think she understood the point even if she did not like it.

– dealing with a patient with a low pain tolerance – for about three appointments in one week and not being able to majically relieve her pain.

– trying to explain to another patient that his tissues were just so fragile that he simply was not healing in the normal time (he has several medical complications) and that I, again, could not make the surgical sites heal faster.

– taking eleven teeth out for a three year old

– scraping thick plaque off a child’s teeth in the operating room so that we could see the surface of the teeth we had to fill, knowing that the fillings don’t stand much of a chance of lasting a year.

– refusing to remove all a patients healthy teeth simply because she wants me to.

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Good news

Patrick called us last night pretty excited.  Finally he has a date to take the exam for Canadian Citizenship.  A long time waiting.  It will be good.  He will have freedom to travel.  Most of us have never experienced the restrictions to travel like a Congolese does all the time.

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