Arguing our points

Just sitting here browsing, since my patients have chosen not to show up this morning – so far.  David Brazzeal at www.curieux.ca posted a link to this article, Avoiding the Argument Party, on the Resonate group conversation.  Brian McLaren gets knocked around for his expressions of belief but I sure think he writes with a lot of insight.  We spend a lot of time defending ourselves and specific current issues that we have strong opinions on.  We like to argue, especially if we can make our point clear. 

But, I wonder if Jesus would have argued over the popular controversies or if he would have left them to the religious leaders who liked to argue? 

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Just thinking

I was thinking back to when I posted the picture of my son with his friends from law school.  He of course introduced us to friends of both sexes.  But his best friend was female and from what I could tell, he was certainly at ease in the company of a number of the women in his class.  I am wondering if this reflects on the stature of the significant women in his life or if it is just a personality thing?  He is a sympathetic guy and a good listener – but then again is definitely a male( his favorite piece of property he apparently listed as his rifle) in some ways of thinking. 

I’m just not sure he has been around many women that were the submissive type.  I am not.  His wife is not.  I suspect he is at ease around these women colleagues of his because he respects them as equals – or maybe as his betters.

I’ll have to ask him some day.

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Sweet Sixteen

Today was a pretty busy day – funeral this morning, dance competition to watch this afternoon and a session of volunteering at the same event this evening.  I just got home in fact.  And I’m pooped!  The girls got a distinction in their Hip Hop duet and that was great. 

But the big event of the day was that Sara turned 16.   She goes for her first attempt at the road test on Thursday.  Man, it just seems like yesterday that she was sitting beside me in the plane scribbling on some paper as we travelled home to Karawa from Kinshasa.  Today she went down to Saskatoon with her boyfriend for her big day.  His present to her — with our permission (he asked) — a belly button ring.  Yikes – I’m not about to do anything that looks that painful. 

Tomorrow we will have her favorite cake in her honor – McCains frozen vanilla cake with little chocolate sprinkles.  And ice cream of course. 

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That's my boy

Here he is.  A face only a mother could love.  It was hard to get a picture when his mouth was not moving!  Like a good lawyer!   

Well, actually, he seems to be friends with a lot of other students and they tended to be women.  Not sure what that means. 

Finally we have one kid through school – at least for awhile.  And I hope that if he goes back for more school later he will do it on his own tab. 

A lawyer in the family!  That is a first I do believe.

We sure had a fun time last night.  The MC was hilarious.  Roy Romanow was the guest speaker.  So we got a very good law school type of lecture.  It was very interesting – hearing one of the people who helped repatriate our constitution and write the Charter of Rights and Freedoms speak of the importance of putting justice ahead of rights. 

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Dancing

Last night I spent at the E A Rawlinson Centre. The Prince Albert Festival of Dance is going on there this week and last night Grace was dancing.  When I looked at the schedule hung up on her dance studio wall, I sort of figured out that she should dance at about 8 pm, maybe a bit before.  There must have been a page missing – at least I missed it.  She and Nathalie danced last on the program after 10 pm. 

Oh well, I enjoyed a whole evening of dance for only $2.50.  Some of those girls(and a few guys) are really good dancers.  And since I can’t dance worth a hoot – I was impressed and wondered what if I had taken lessons when I was a kid.  But a pastor’s daughter didn’t get to do those things back in the days.

Grace and Nathalie danced a modern number.  This is their first year dancing modern dance.  The song was a real upbeat one with a calypso beat.  They did a great job and pulled off a first place with a mark of 84, I believe.

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New blogger

My good friend, Lauralea, has finally started to blog.  It’s about time ’cause she is a good writer, is funny and creative and has important stuff to say.

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A new Pope

As I was filling someone’s tooth this morning the usual assortment of popular music was interrupted to announce the election of a new pope.  A relatively quick election I think.

So it is Ratzinger!  Benedict 16th.   A conservative theologically for sure.  I can remember reading a paper of his on the Holy Spirit.  I think I picked up the reference to the paper via Brad Boydston’s site a long time ago.  It was a good paper if not a bit over my head.

I was commenting to one of my assistants that I didn’t suppose that with Ratzinger we’d have much chance of seeing women ordained to the priesthood anytime soon.  It opens up a whole new area to talk about anyway.  She might find the little booklet Called and Gifted put out by our congregation interesting.  I like it because it is based on scripture and is not sectarian.

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Suits me fine

There is nothing like getting all dressed up in new clothes to make a woman feel good.
How do you like the new outfit?  
Ordered it down at Randall’s Little Shop of Blog Creations and I think it suits me just fine.

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My Sure Thing

In my morning readings:

John 6: 68,69 (NLT)
68Simon Peter replied, “Lord, to whom would we go? You alone have the words that give eternal life. 69We believe them, and we know you are the Holy One of God.”

These are some of the words I return to over and over.  In the middle of trouble when I am faced with things I do not understand, even when God seems silent, I return to these words of Peter’s which have become my words too.  I return to the experiences of my past, I remember how God has been with me.  I go spend some time in the outdoors and get my perspectives straightened around.  I spend some time drinking from the Psalms.  I believe.  I hang onto this God that I know is independent of my emotional state.  This is the God who is – the I AM.  There is no where else to turn.

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Rain

Rain

Sodden promise laced with snow,
Drape yourself on the brown land
In grey soft sheets.
Embrace the waiting limbs,
Seduce the land,
Flatter the buds to swell.
We would have spring!

 

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