Wow, here it is Friday already!  The week has gone way too fast.

Today I was in the OR again working on little sleepy kids.  At least during the time while I was working they were quiet.  Then they get sent to recovery and boy what a fight they can fight.  I guess if they were nice and quiet all the time they wouldn’t be in the hospital getting dental work done that way to begin with. 

I mean, really would you want all your fillings done at one time in the space of an hour or so?  Would you wake up just little miss or mr pleasentness and sweetness?  Not likely. 

I just wish we would make a small dent in the backload of kids needing this kind of work.  We do three kids and in the same week add 6 more to our witing list. 


Tonight, Leo and I went to the District Medical Society’s “Christmas” party.  They always hold it in Janurary.  This year it was an interactive dinner theatre.  The show – well we were all in it too.  Love Ukranian Style.  Sort of like a local version of Big Fat Greek Wedding, a la Ukranian community.  The old babuska was the best.  Although Leo was quite taken by a woman in blue – she, being one of the unattached bridesmaids, kept hitting on him.  My eyes never left him. 

The dinner fit right in.  Cabbage rolls, ham and turkey.  Those little ukranian meatballs and mushrooms in some kind of cream sauce that I haven’t had for years. 

It was a good night out with lots of laughs.  But I was glad to drag my man home.

 

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Just the events of the day

Now that last post was a weird one. 

I am up to my eyeballs in stuff.  The church annual meeting is coming up and I have reports to write.  Also have a board meeting this week to prepare for.  It is at times like this that I wish I had one of those memories – you know the ones where things are stored and actually can be retrieved.

Work was busy today.  One of my assistants had a sick child she needed to stay home with. We did not cancel anyone, just worked a bit harder to keep up.  And we saw everyone plus a guy who we told five years ago that he needed a new bridge.  There was decay under it then.  Well today, he was back.  First of all the white porcelain part fractured off the metal understructure.  It was his front tooth.  We fit him in to see what the problem was but did not have the time to repair the facing just then.  About two hours later we got another call – the whole thing had fallen apart.  Not being really sure just what that meant, we called him back in.  Sure enough, the whole bridge was off.  The tooth on one end had broken.  Now he was without two front teeth. 

Moral of the story – sometimes it pays to listen to the dentist and get the teeth repaired before disaster strikes!

Then right after work – hair cut.  And time to hide the roots of wisdom again.

At 7, worship practice.  We had a good time.  Most of the songs went well.  Our saxophone player is back and it sounds so good.  Now if we can get her to enter the building on a Sunday morning to play with us – we will be able to share those good sounds with everyone. 

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Weird

So what is weird about me?  Dixie tagged me and I am supposed to come up with 5 weird things – about me.  Hmmm.  I think I am one of the most unweird people around – totally boring I suppose.  Maybe some of the stuff I think is normal other people think is weird.  So I will try.

1.  I like a peanut butter sandwich plain, on fresh white bread.  I do not want any jam or honey with that, thank you, esxpecially grape jam.

2.  I also like my hamburgers plain.  I do not add ketchup or mayo or mustard or relish.  I want to taste meat when I eat it!  Oh yeah – no pickles or onions on that either. 

3.  It might be weird that I like to be alone, but I don’t think so.  There is nothing better than a long road trip by myself. 

4.  When I find something that I like I will come back to it over and over again.  For me it is savouring the experience or the place or the taste. 

5.  I like the challenge of extracting impacted wisdom teeth.  Well, that is, except when it is just stubborn.  usually it is just setting up the proper cuts, making sure enough bone is removed, tooth sectionned at the right spots and out it comes.  I love it when it goes well.  Mind you, I hate it when it goes badly.

If you really want to know weird things about me, I am probably not the person to ask.  Ask my family.  They will tell you about the laundry incident.  But we won’t get into that!

If you are my friend and you want to tell us weird things about yourself and you have not already been tagged on this one – feel free.  Say I tagged you.

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Basketball Mom

I’m not sure I really qualify for this title.  But I did spend this evening at St Mary High’s tournament – and watched Sara play as her team got soundly beaten by LCBI from Outlook. 

I realized that it has been many years since I have watched basketball.  No, I did watch at least one game last year.  But I think it was a game played more just for fun than for competition last year.  Last year the tournament almost got snowed out.  I can remember almost not making it to the school last year – wouldn’t have except for my four wheel drive.

This year I was volunteering in the canteen as well.  We weren’t very busy tonight.  There is a lot of chili and soup.  I don’t think they will run out.

Sara said that at one little town where they played a couple of weekends ago, the canteen closed down early, nothing was open in the town, so the team which had not eaten before the game had to go hungry.  Not good planning on the part of the organizers.  The one restaurant in the town had on the menu two choices – chicken fingers and fries or a cheeseburger and fries!  Yum.

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Halfway through the first week back

Half way through the first week back at work.  Or pessimistically speaking – half the week to go.

For some reason, I have had a headache since the week began.  I haven’t gotten back into the rhythms of work life yet, I think that is the reason for the nagging headache.  That and the fact that this week has held its share of “interesting” patients. 

One real weird woman.  Wants the impossible, books an appointment for a specific procedure.  Gets in the chair and starts to question what is planned; couldn’t we do this instead.  Then severely overreacts to the slightest discomfort by wincing, jumping and worst of all, by reaching up and grabbing my hand or some instrument.  Almost a guaranteed way to get a penetrating injury!  I can deal with fear in patients but weirdness is so unpredictable!  And maybe the most uncomfortable part – she knows someone I know and so she comes in and addresses me on a first name basis as if I were a long lost friend. 

That is almost as bad as the obnoxious Christian patients who are unreasonably demanding and uncharitable to boot.  I keep hoping that the staff who must cheerfully listen to them whine and complain do not identify their behaviour as typical of all followers of Christ.

Then there are a lot of just difficult cases that can show up in the same week – technically difficult or glitches that have to be worked out, taking more time than planned.  Those can be challenging or simply tiring and this week they may be more tiring just because it is the first week back.  And it was so nice to be off for a full week and a bit!

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A new year begins

Jan 1, 2006 is speeding along towards it’s end and the beginning of another week of work.  Back to normal tomorrow I guess.

Today I was mostly lazy.  I went up to read and found myself falling asleep.  So I did. 

Tomorrow there will be no chance for that!

For sure this year will bring work.  And all the other stuff this year will bring – who knows?  But I am looking forward to seeing what becomes of some of the possibilities. 

Some of the possibilities?
        – studying – I always do some of this since there are minimum continuing ed requirements to keep up with but I am considering something else a bit different.  I need to hear God on this so am waiting for a bit and doing a bunch of praying. 

        – change in our church structure – I wonder if the changes will make enough difference.  I wonder if  we will transition into a form that will call to the hearts of people on the periphery.  Where people at the structural centre will be able to connect to the people out there touching the world around with love and care.  I wonder if we can do it?

The rest of the possibilities?  I think they will unfold as we move along through the year. 

One that I am looking forward to in the next little while is discussing a book that I have almost finished reading – Colossians Remixed, Subverting the Empire by Brian J. Walsh and Sylvia C. Keesmaat.  Susan Arnold has a book discussion blog and this is going to be on the menu.  It is a good book, uses big words but challenged me to resist getting sucked in by the world around me.  Santa came through for me getting the book to me just before his workshop shut down on Christmas Eve.

 

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Christmas Gathering

We had our Christmas gathering of friends last evening.  We still have food left over – funny how that works.  But all the spicy shrimp, stuffed mushrooms and miniature quiche’s are gone.  Michelle, my daughter-in-law spent a good chunk of time in the kitchen with me yesterday afternoon doing the crab stuffed mushrooms – and they were good. 

We had an interesting group of people with us.  And yes we did have a mix of languages, mostly French and English but there were also a couple from the Philippines(originally) who could have thrown in some Spanish and one from Holland who could have carried on a conversation in Dutch.  And some Lingala was thrown into the mix.  Then there was our Muslim friend who speaks Bengali.  He recounted the times when he has been asked if he is bilingual on job interviews and how those of limited language abilities seem to discount the fact that many people are bilingual – just the languages are not always just French and English.

Our younger kids also invited some of their friends and they seemed to have a good time too.  It mostly takes food to pull off that I think.

I do not think that I am really a gifted hostess.  I stress out too much about it all ahead of time.  And it takes a lot of energy to pull off a night of visiting with a house full of people in the three languages I can converse in. But it always turns out to be fun when I get right into it and last night was a lot of fun. 

Now, four more days of relaxation before the holidays are over.

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I want to wish you…

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Almost ready

Christmas Eve approaches.  All my children and grandchildren will be under my roof as well as my Step-mom, Sharon and my Aunt Florence.  That is only 15, not that many!

And I think everyone is bringing something so it doesn’t end up being that much work.  It is not a high stress day for me once I get the food under control.  My kids have all seen my house au naturel  so I don’t have to put on a show for them, even though I will have the house pretty clean I hope. 

 

Today I accomplished a lot of things I needed or wanted to do.  Outside lights finally fixed.  Cookies all baked.  Wrapping mostly done.

 

There are still a few last minute groceries to pick up – make sure we have enough milk and bread and of course ketchup.  Ketchup is one of those staple foods in my house – even on Christmas – for the tourtiere.

 

I think the rest of the week we will eat left overs.  That is one of my favorite forms of turkey. 

 

The only other big event is a bit of an open house on Wednesday.  We’ll have some friends and acquaintances over, some colleagues of Leo’s, some friends from out of town a way, and some friends from church.  Bring your best French for the occasion since that is the language of preference for some of our guests.  But English will do if you are linguistically challenged.  If you are in town, come on over around 7 pm. 

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Two gifts

This week I received two special gifts.

 

Not the conventional gifts of chocolates, cookies or cards that are commonly given by patients.

 

These gifts came totally unexpectedly, unannounced and unaccompanied by a card.  In fact the givers don’t even know they gave them.  But they were among the best I have received this year so far.  Real live success stories.

 

The first came from a young woman.  She is 20 now and has a small baby.  She carried herself with a confidence that in some ways surprised me. 

 

When I first saw her she was frightened and in pain; sent down to see me by the dental therapist in her home community.  She was pretty enough even with the obvious lack of development of the mid-face till she opened her mouth.  Her teeth had never been cared for and were so decayed and covered by debris that she did not smile.  Her teeth were not only badly decayed but were a jumble; a malocclusion that was so severe from poor jaw development that we wouldn’t even be able to make her decent looking false teeth if we went that route. 

 

This week I received two special gifts.

 

Not the conventional gifts of chocolates, cookies or cards that are commonly given by patients.

 

These gifts came totally unexpectedly, unannounced and unaccompanied by a card.  In fact the givers don’t even know they gave them.  But they were among the best I have received this year so far.  Real live success stories.

 

The first came from a young woman.  She is 20 now and has a small baby.  She carried herself with a confidence that in some ways surprised me. 

 

When I first saw her she was frightened and in pain; sent down to see me by the dental therapist in her home community.  She was pretty enough even with the obvious lack of development of the mid-face till she opened her mouth.  Her teeth had never been cared for and were so decayed and covered by debris that she did not smile.  Her teeth were not only badly decayed but were a jumble; a malocclusion that was so severe from poor jaw development that we wouldn’t even be able to make her decent looking false teeth if we went that route. 

 

In a case such as this, successful treatment depends on attitude, determination and a willingness to change some ingrained habits of hygiene(or lack thereof).  I didn’t know if she could do it but everything depended on it.  We would do our best to get her treated if she kept up her end.  She needed more than what her insurance normally paid in a year.  She needed to see the Orthodontist within the year and she didn’t meet the criteria because of the extent of her decay and her poor hygiene.  We would have to plead her case with the authorities and get the rules bent. 

 

She understood the extensiveness of the treatment she needed enough to leave our office in tears.  She knew that she would have to meet some pretty rigid standards if we were going to advocate for the treatment she needed. 

 

The changes didn’t happen overnight but she came back to be treated.  Little by little we made progress.  We requested special considerations for her from the regional dental officer and got them.  She overcame her fear and had fillings, root canals, more fillings and oral hygiene instruction till we knew that she knew what to do.  She began the long process of getting ready for braces and maxillofacial surgery.

 

This week she came back for her regular check-up.  She came in with a smile, showing off her braces.  She is cavity free this year.  She is flossing, brushing and keeping those braces shiny, even investing some of her own funds for the preventive products we could offer her to help strengthen her enamel.   

 

We didn’t get to see her small baby – the band would spare no funds to send her nursing baby down with her.  As she left we asked if she would like an infant toothbrush to take home for her baby.  “No thanks,” she replied. “Don’t worry though.  I have about five of them.”

 

The second gift also walked out of the office smiling.  He is a big guy; not so old, only seventeen I guess, but he has thick black hair down to the middle of his back and a full beard.  He is the kind of guy you might be afraid to pass walking down the street if you judge by his looks.  In reality, he is one of the most polite gentle young men I know. 

 

A few years ago he came in with his father, his teeth pretty much a jumble in his mouth too.  His dad wanted his son to have better teeth than he did.  So we started work on getting things straightened out.  But kids from homes where the parents have split up can have a real hard time complying with the consistent wear that a retainer type of appliance requires.  So it went with him – missed appointments, poor brushing and instructions not followed very well; walking in late because he had to get himself to our office. 

 

Finally we suggested to him that he come in with his parents and we would discuss discontinuing his orthodontics.  This time mom came in with him.  She promised that she would take control of getting him to the appointments seeing that he brushed and of making the payments.   So we gave him one last chance.

 

The chance we took with him paid off.  Today we removed the braces from his beautiful teeth; straight with no cavities.  It was good to see him leave smiling.

 

That kind of satisfaction, seeing good things come about in kid’s lives and having a part in it, makes me love the work I do. 

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